Ptarth recently released UberFix mod V1, available here: http://forums.demigodthegame.com/374315
This is a collection of community-created bugfixes (many from Ptarth himself), and we would all benefit from widespread use of this mod online. To this effect, if you have installed this mod, add your name to this post, and maybe when people see everyone using it, it will become commonplace.
Additionally, if you are having trouble finding games with this mod, try joining the following Vent server:
Many top-level players (who are using this mod) idle/use that vent server, you should have no trouble finding someone to play with or against if you check there.
Current players using this mod:
The list keeps growing and I'm tired of editing this post. Just look at all the replys!